User blog comment:Kagimizu/Respect/@comment-1617565-20120828221409/@comment-5299252-20120828225535

Then I'll say my problem with you, Kagi.


 * One doesn't need just words to judge
 * One can look at the actions.
 * In which become character (As actions become character).
 * In which become judgment (As actions can make you be judged).
 * In which become goals (As being judged the wrong way can lead to improvement).
 * In which becomes the making of life (These goals can be good or bad, just go with whatever you wish is right).

You can say that I don't have the right to judge you for not knowing who you are or how you act, but that's not true. People do have the right to judge you for your actions, however, if people judge you wrongly, you don't take it kindly and you go off on them for it. Me? I just spoke my opinion and judged you from your actions, yet you still get very angry at me instead of just calmly discussing it with me like an adult should, instead of just having a tantrum like a young boy.

When people have problems like this, what do you think is the right way in which they do try to find a solution? Go at each others' throats and start arguing? Or calmly discuss it like adults should? When you say I didn't have the right to judge, I admit, I was a bit infuriated, however I kept my cool most of the time while you seemingly did not. It's okay to disagree with me, Kagi, but it's not always okay to disagree violently like you did with me last night. If you wish to be treated in a good way, then don't be so violent in your behavior, otherwise people get iffy with you. Because that's how one can judge; you can still say I don't have my rights to judge you, but from seeing your actions, and from last night, I think I still have that right. And no; I may sound impudent talking like this, but I'm not suggesting I'm perfect, nor am I saying that you are right or wrong. I might be wrong in this case; but we both don't have our rights to note whether you are right, I am wrong, or if it's vice-versa, or if we're both wrong.