User blog:Famotill/C'mon now!!

People are really getting down here (and not in the good way). Lately people just mope around, and feel bad or sorry or regretful. Then people get into arguements, harm themselves (or threaten to), leave, ban themselves, etc. Some people say that they have no friends or that cool people are just jerks, when in reality everyone is living their life. No not all people are going to be nice, and not all of them will be as friendly as people on here are, but that's life. I feel sad too just like EVERY single person in the world does. It is okay to cry and it's okay to need help or feel sad. What is not okay is that people want to harm themselves or get into arguements. Alot of people on here have some self-esteem issues. I mean it's understandable as some people aren't popular because of what they like. For those people I have one question: If you don't have any or many friends off the wikis then why ruin the relationships you have on the wikis? And I know what people will say "You make it seem liek your better" or "You don't know what I go through" but sheesh guys you don't have it that bad. At least you have nice things liek computers when people in Africa or in Haiti would kill just to get food. When I was younger I was like some people on here. I had friends, but not so many. I was stressed with school, and It really got to me to the point where I would cry, but I decided that crying and being sad all the time won't change anything!! I decided to start to try to make friends instead of making accuses like "Oh they are jerks, and I'm above them" because no one is better than anyone. Now I am one of them most popular kids in my school (I know it seems like I'm lying, but I would swear on a stack of bibles) and alot of people know all of my intrests be it Sonic or that funny little game with the Pinatas (Viva Pinata). Now look I didn't make this to tell people to go out their and be popular because that isn't what everybody wants. Some people just want to feel good. Well the onyl person who can do that is yourselves. So stop feeling sad everyday, stop crying everyday, stop hating people or stressign abotu people everyday. If you let the opinion of others, or the pressures of everyday life get to you then how can you expect life to be great. Just be yourself or change who you are. Do whatever helps you. If it is crying now and again then that's fine, if it's taking up a class for fighting and/or boxing then do it, if it's coming here or hanging with friends then do it. I am just asking everybody as a friend and fellow member to please not let little things get you down. Because in the end all that matters is if you can look back at what you've done and remember that you were strong enough to overcome and laugh at a mistake or that you didn't cry about things so unimportant. If you need to take a break from the internet that is alright. You do what you have to to feel good about yourself. Look in the mirror and smile once in a while. Be happy about yourself and yoru friends. Save the crying for funerals and really good movies because you never know what will happen next. I am sorry If I offend or anger anyone with this, and feel free to dislike me or share your opinions, but even if I get disliekd for this it would be worth it to knwo that my friends feel better about themselves, and when they started to feel good about themselves the wiki improved too! Please take this to heart, and let bigones be bigones.