User blog comment:Flashfire212/User Rights Recommendation: MetalTD for Administrator/@comment-209421-20140206080343/@comment-209421-20140209024836

Yes, I know the situation you talk about. But, I also understand that I will never have the full story from EITHER side. I can't sit in chat and see what goes on for two reasons.


 * 1) I need sleep, and I sleep when she is most active - she normally gets online around midnight my time, and my brain ceases to function properly around an hour and a half after that.
 * 2) My very presence on chat biases people.

Unlike Skype, I essentially hold power here over every person. So, unconsciously, people who would normally argue and fight miraculously stop, because if they keep fighting and they end up getting me involved, bans or demotions follow, so instead I have to rely on two stories - her word and yours. I cannot rely on screenshots, nor on impartial viewers, since there are none - everyone has an influence.